In the state of New Jersey, like other states, the complaint for divorce must contain the reason for the divorce. It cannot be just any reason; only those permitted by law can be used. These reasons are known as “grounds for divorce.” In New Jersey the recognized grounds for divorce are:
The ground that you choose may affect when you will be able to file for divorce. You can file immediately for divorce using a ground such as irreconcilable differences, extreme cruelty or adultery (which is rarely used). You have the option to file under the ground of separation if you have lived physically separate and live apart for 18 months or you can chose desertion if your spouse left you and did not return for a period of greater than one year.
Most Used Grounds for Divorce
In 2007, New Jersey changed it’s law and united with a growing number of other states by including “irreconcilable differences” as a ground for divorce. Prior to the new ground of “irreconcilable differences” you would have to wait for 18 months, if the separation was mutual or 12 months if there was a desertion. Only Extreme Cruelty, which many people did not favor, would permit you to divorce in quick time. Now with the new ground of irreconcilable differences divorcing couples can begin a divorce in a more to begin their legal proceedings in a more respectful manner, without having to accuse the other of being at fault. Irreconcilable differences just means that there has been a breakdown of the marriage and it has lasted at least six months.
A common reason used as ground for divorce is "Extreme Cruelty". Even though it appears very harsh, in fact, as it is used in New Jersey, it can be used for almost any time of disagreement. Whereas in other states there has to be a physical act for this ground of divorce, in New Jersey there does not have to be any physical act and either mental or emotional effect of the disagreements can be used to establish the ground for divorce; it would suffice. However, in certain instances, the Extreme Cruelty can be used to describe horrendous actions by one of the spouse, but his is only used when the divorce is litigious and unfriendly.
Using the ground “separation” is permitted if the couple has lived apart in different habitations for at least 18 months.
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